Found out tonight (Friday), that we have to move out by Sunday. I have no where to go. So much to pack. I'm trying to trust God in this situation, but it's scary not knowing where i'll be staying from monday on.
The past month has been extremely hard. I try to withhold all my
negative complaints. But it's hard. I'm not saying my problems are super big. I'm jus sayin i'm having a hard time enduring my problems. Sometimes we all just need someone
to affirm that what we're going through is stressful, painful and
difficult. If you felt terrible, and had no one who was willing to
listen, offer empathy, or someone who could understand, how would you
feel? Yeah you don't wanna let your crappy feelings affect others, but
at the same time i think it's healthy to express what your going
through. Perhaps were taught to suck up all our problems because no one
really has time to care. It seems we aren't patient enough to truly
listen to how someone else really feels. In counseling, we're told to
never give quick fix answers. It kinda frustrates me now when people try
to solve deep rooted problems with such simple minded solutions that
don't really do much help. Counseling is less about giving advice, and
more about giving compassion, helping them come to realizations, and
directing them to God.
1 comment:
:( good luck, chris sis!
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